Ida Tin, I appreciate your story very much. One of the crazy things about birth, and fertility itself for some, is its unpredictability. Planning often goes out the window and we grapple with what is…I wrote this post a few years ago, after arriving in Berlin and giving birth. I felt powerful that I handled such a life-shaping, physical and emotional experience in a new country: http://drawntoberlin.blogspot.de/2014/08/and-baby-makes-three.html